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A ‘mother’? Bach­e­lors and Mas­ters degrees in Sci­ence.  Over the years she has been: Staff Nurse in hos­pi­tal  Nurse Man­ag­er Staff Devel­op­ment Coor­di­na­tor Found­ing leader of a com­mu­ni­ty autism soci­ety Board Cer­ti­fied Behav­ior Ana­lyst Lead Behav­ior Ana­lyst in a state projects Pri­vate con­sult­ing busi­ness Cur­rent­ly pur­su­ing a Ph.D. Fre­quent speak­er at con­fer­ences and work­shops at the […]

‘Bureaucratic autism’ running rampant!

It’s the inabil­i­ty of peo­ple at any lev­el in bureau­cra­cies, par­tic­u­lar­ly big gov­ern­ment but often big busi­ness too, to come face to face with issues. Staff at our coun­ty run pub­lic hos­pi­tal no longer look you in the eye when you pass by – 8 years ago their lev­el of cour­tesy and acknowl­edge­ment of the […]

Goodness – why it matters

Good­ness is a long lost attribute and much maligned these days since a “good” per­son is an easy mark for many of the manip­u­la­tive peo­ple one meets. But those who are tru­ly “good” have a spe­cial qual­i­ty which makes all our lives bet­ter. I believe infants and chil­dren are real­ly “good” before we con­t­a­m­i­nate them with […]

Food for thought

Does any­one know how much of our food is com­ing from Chi­na? I was in my local store the oth­er day and as is my cus­tom I checked the ‘country of orig­in’ of most of the prod­ucts I was con­tem­plat­ing buy­ing, in this case frozen bay scal­lops – farm raised in Chi­na. Need­less to say – or […]

Simple Remedies

There are sim­ple reme­dies for devel­op­men­tal delays (bar­ring phys­i­cal caus­es). This will astound many peo­ple, espe­cial­ly sci­en­tists, researchers, and career par­ents, to name a few. These high­ly intel­li­gent indi­vid­u­als, many of whom have chil­dren on the autism spec­trum, have the intel­li­gence and pow­er to learn what to do to allow their chil­dren to return to normal […]

“Puddles are for splashing in, sticks are for picking up”

Imag­ine your life as a mod­ern child. Can you imag­ine it? Prob­a­bly not, because the oper­a­tive word in the sen­tence is ‘modern’. There is no child­hood any more. I know of few chil­dren who live an ear­ly life of free­dom, hap­pi­ness and good cheer. Par­ents aren’t choos­ing free­dom for their chil­dren – they are choos­ing a […]

Non-maternal child care

Tell me why we even need such a phrase in our vocab­u­lary? It is of course that we live in a soci­ety where non-mater­­nal care has become the norm. The phrase comes up query­ing whether there is a sta­tis­ti­cal link between ear­ly non-mater­­nal care and autism, class­room behav­iour in lat­er years, devel­op­men­tal delays, speech delays, vocabulary […]

Courage As A Primary Goal

I seem to flip flop between being coura­geous and not. I am usu­al­ly more coura­geous when I have returned from Eng­land, as I have recent­ly. Per­haps I feel more valid when I’m there? I can usu­al­ly be very coura­geous for any­one in my fam­i­ly or close friends of any age. My ideas flow well and I […]

It’s the human contact – stupid!

Pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tions might ask me why I’m so open to meet­ing new peo­ple. I haven’t moved house in near­ly 26 years and I’m real­ly hap­py about feel­ing so per­ma­nent in so many ways – not that I can ever be an Amer­i­can, I’m Eng­lish still. But you just nev­er know who is round the cor­ner to […]

Mother & Nanny

These terms are much in use these days. In a recent dis­cus­sion with a friend we men­tioned ‘at home moth­er­s’. The phrase implies that the moth­er is not only ‘at home’ but that she is spend­ing much of her time inter­act­ing with her child/ren. Like­wise with the word ‘nanny’; com­mon­ly bandied about to describe the […]